If you are generous with your love, everyone is going to love you. –Don Miguel Ruiz
Once you decide to become a couple, you are there to serve the one you love. . . you are there to serve your love to your lover, to be each other’s servant. . . . Love is always kind. –Don Miguel Ruiz
If you see your partnership, your romantic relationship, as a team, everything will start to improve. –Don Miguel Ruiz
To become masters of love, we have to practice love. The art of relationship is also a whole mastery, and the only way to reach mastery is with practice. To master a relationship is therefore about action. It is not about concepts or attaining knowledge. It is about action. Of course, to have action, we need to have some knowledge, or at least a little more awareness of the ways humans operate. –Don Miguel Ruiz
No one else can make you happy; happiness is the result of love coming out of you. –Don Miguel Ruiz
You cannot change other people. –Don Miguel Ruiz
We have to learn not to put our nose where no one wants it. –Don Miguel Ruiz
You are not in the relationship to clean your partner’s garbage; she is going to clean her own. –Don Miguel Ruiz
[In a good relationship] sex becomes a communion; sex becomes a complete surrendering, a dance, an art, a supreme expression of beauty. –Don Miguel Ruiz
On one level or another, all of us are masters. We are masters because we have the power to create and to rule our own lives. . . . You create yourself, whatever you believe you are. You are the way you are because that is what you believe about yourself. Your whole reality, everything you believe, is your creation. –Don Miguel Ruiz
The human mind is sick with a disease called fear. . . . the emotional body is full of wounds, and these wounds are infected with emotional poison. . . . the result of the disease is all the emotions that make us suffer. . . . Humans live in continuous fear of being hurt. . . . The human mind is sick because it has a Parasite that steals its vital energy and robs it of joy. The Parasite is all those beliefs that make you suffer . –Don Miguel Ruiz
Happiness never comes from outside of us. We are happy because of the love coming out of ourselves. –Don Miguel Ruiz
Everything we think, everything we do, has a consequence. –Don Miguel Ruiz
Love is based on respect. . . . Love respects. I love you; I know you can make it. I know you are strong enough, intelligent enough, good enough that you can make your own choices. If you fall I can give you my hand, I can help you to stand up. I can say, “you can do it, go ahead.” That is compassion. –Don Miguel Ruiz
Selfishness, control and fear will break almost any relationship. Generosity, freedom and love will create the most beautiful relationship: an ongoing romance. –Don Miguel Ruiz
The right woman for you is the woman you love just the way she is, the woman you don’t have the need to change at all. –Don Miguel Ruiz
Nothing that your partner does is personal. Your partner is dealing with her own garbage. If you don’t take it personally, it will be so easy for you to have a wonderful relationship with your partner. –Don Miguel Ruiz
The truth is like a scalpel because it is painful to open our wounds and uncover all the lies. The wounds in our emotional body are covered by the denial system, the system of lies we have created to protect those wounds. When we look at our wounds with eyes of truth, we can finally heal them. . . . The only way to heal your wounds is through forgiveness. . . . Forgive others by knowing that whatever anyone did to you had nothing to do with you. The words and actions that hurt you are merely a reaction to the demons in that person’s own mind. … Nothing anyone does is because of you. You also must forgive yourself for all those wounds and all the poison you created for yourself in your own dream. … Once we have cleaned the wounds, we are going to us the powerful medicine of Love to accelerate the process of healing. –Don Miguel Ruiz
You are the force that plays with your mind and uses your body as its favorite toy to play and have fun with. –Don Miguel Ruiz
If you take responsibility for your own life, for your own actions, then your future is in your hands, and you can live in heaven while the body is alive. –Don Miguel Ruiz
Whatever we believe rules our existence, rules our life. –Don Miguel Ruiz
Don’t believe everything you think. –my favorite one-liner?
Life is nothing but a dream, and if you create your life with Love, your dream becomes a masterpiece of art. –Don Miguel Ruiz
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